I read Mike Murdock's book,"The law of Recognition",sometime ago and in chapter 6 of the book,he talked about the recognition of the mate God has approved for you.He took some excerpts from his forthcoming books at the time,"Think twice before marrying him" and "Think twice before marrying her".So I thought to share them with you.
Here goes:
-Think twice if you do not possess a passionate desire to give to them...too often marriage becomes an exchange.Exchange is the evidence of business,not love.
-Think twice if they do not possess a passionate desire to give back to you...A listening hear,flexibility,patience and the willingness to be corrected are gifts.
-Think twice if your personal achievements do not create excitement in them...when good things happen,who is the first person you desire to telephone?
-Think twice if they have not been captivated by what has captivated you...you simply cannot know a man by studying him,you know a man by studying his focus.
-Think twice if you have lost your desire to impress them...you are a walking message system to those you love,so something is wrong when you no longer desire to present your best to your mate.
-Think twice if they never ask quality questions concerning your greatest dreams and goals.
-Think twice if they ignore worthy counsel from qualified mentors in their life...you become like those you admire,you adapt the habits of those you envy.
-Think twice if you do not see continuous improvement in the relationship...improvement is revealed by the decrease of conflict.
-Think twice if they show little pain or remorse concerning their past mistakes...those who are truly repentant truly hurt,are not arrogant and do not blame others for their decisions.
-Think twice if they enjoy th atmosphere and climate of rebels.
-Think twice if they have an obsession to attract the attention of the opposite sex.
-Think twice if breaking the law is humorous and exciting to them.
-Think twice if they show little respect for the agenda and schedule of others...your respect for the schedule of others reveals much about you(I love this point best!!!).
-Think twice when it is obvious that you will never become their focus and assignment.
-Think twice if they embrace an accusation against you before they have heard your side of the matter.
-Think twice if they have not exited previous relationships peaceably...many thrive on strife.
To be continued...What do you think?Comments,please!
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