Monday, August 31, 2009

THE REASONS WHY SOME RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES DONT WORK....IS GOING AHEAD WITH YOUR MARRIAGE PLANS REALLY WORTH IT???HERE ARE SOME PITFALLS TO AVOID!!!(PART II)

Yea,I have been MIA for a few days...been feeling lazy to type anything....but,here I am!!!!Here is the continuation of the topic on relationships and marriage...Enjoy!!!

-Think twice if their parents have contempt for you or your assignment in life...the bloodline is more powerful than anyone can imagine.

-Think twice if pebble problems unleash mountains of anger in them.

-Think twice if they refuse to find a job...It is a sin not to work,productive women excite productive men!!!

-Think twice if their own dreams are not big enough to motivate them.

-Think twice if they are uncomfortable in the presence of God.

-Think twice if they feel inferior to you...everyone is superior to others in some way.But it is important for them to feel confident and qualified to be your mate.

-Think twice if they do not long to understand and pleasure you.

-Think twice if continuous strife exists between them and their parents...Honoring our parents was the first commandment with a promise.Those who celebrate the authority over their life ultimately succeed.

-Think twice if they treat the favor of others with ingratitude.

-Think twice if they do not have a hunger to know the voice of God.

-Think twice if you are not excited about introducing them to those you love.

-Think twice if they show little respect for the battles you have won throughout your lifetime...when someone loves you, they admire your achievements.

-Think twice if conversation with them has become burdensome...right people energize you, wrong people exhaust you...true love will energize.

-Think twice if they make the major decisions of their life without pursuing your feedback.

-Think twice if your time spent with them always ends with personal guilt or disappointment....withdrawal from any relationship occurs if guilt, fear or a sense of entrapment emerges.

-Think twice if people of excellence do not surround them.

-Think twice if they are unwilling to follow your personal advice and counsel.

-Think twice if you do not admire and respect the mentor at whose feet they sit...Their mentor is feeding either a strength or a weakness.

-Think twice if you only enjoy them during your moments of weakness instead of your moments of strength.

-Think twice if they continually give you counsel contrary to the word of God.

-Think twice if their presence does not motivate you to a higher level of excellence.

I'll try to post the concluding part soon...do you agree with him?

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